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Lifestyle: A man took to Reddit and posted his sad story, where he said the woman told him that she was born in 1998, but it turned out to be something else.
The man took to Reddit to post his sorry tale, where he said the woman routinely told him that she was born in April 1998, but upon going through her laptop, he found her passport, which showed she was born in 1977.
"I've been dating my girlfriend for 4 years now, and she always claimed to be born in April '98, just to find out a picture of her passport in her laptop, which is '77," the OP wrote in the r/BreakUps subreddit. The OP said he did not have any reason to be suspicious, as the woman looked like she was 27 and not someone who was touching 50, but admitted there were a few red flags along the journey.
"There have been a few red flags during our time together that I chose to ignore since I was inexperienced ( it is my first long-term relationship)," he said, adding that the woman was obsessed with her appearance and that all of her friends were significantly older than 27. "Every time I asked her to see any documents, such as a Passport/ID, she refused to show me using silly excuses and trying to avoid the subject." During the search, the OP also found a picture of a positive pregnancy test, clicked just a few months before they met and started dating.
As the post went viral on Reddit, it received hundreds of comments, with the majority of them telling the man to end the relationship, which was built on lies. "IF this is true (ahem), break up. She's lied to you consistently. Who knows what other things she's hidden from you," said one user, while another added: "That four years of deception would be enough for me to never trust her. What else is she willing to mislead you about? That's pathological, tbh." A third commented: "Bro, this is terrifying. If this is true, then this woman is quite literally a psychopath and is capable of much deeper and harmful lies. To do this to someone... for four years is... Insidious." Other users browsed through the OP's profile and saw the picture of the woman and empathised with him, stating: "To all the people saying he's lying, look at his profile. I'd buy it if she told me she was 27."
When quizzed by one of the commenters about the kind of excuses she gave to avoid showing her documents, the OP wrote: "She had a difficult past, she mentioned many times that she was raised by her grandad because her parents didn't wanna raise her. There is very little info about her parents as well. Every time I tried asking the pics to see her family, she said she doesn't have any, because she never spent time with them."
"Regarding the positive pregnancy test, I have no other info other than the one I already mentioned. Essentially, I found a pic on her pc of a positive pregnancy test, and the pic was taken roughly 2 months before we first met and started dating."