A lot of us feel attracted to the 'bad boy' energy and often end up in similar toxic relationships, even after leaving one. This is why girls are always attracted to a total red carpet instead of falling for the whole green forest :
1. Unfamiliar with Healthy Dynamics
Healthy relationships may feel challenging because many of the girlies are not used to being treated with trust, effort, or equality.
2. Comfort Zones in Toxic Patterns
Previous relationships may not have felt secure or easy, which makes healthy connections feel new or challenging.
3. Past Traumas and struggles
Sometimes, past experiences or personal struggles make us feel vulnerable. Our own wounds or weaknesses can lead us to be attracted to similar negative traits in others, which creates a cycle of unhealthy, toxic relationships.
4.Ignoring The Warning Signs
Even when there are obvious warning signs, a good first impression can make us overlook them and ignore the red flags.
5. The Halo Effect
The halo effect is when one positive trait, like being attractive, makes us assume someone is great in other ways too, like having a good personality or being smart.
For a healthy relationship with your partner, choose someone who brings balance and peace, not chaos and drama. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it. Work on yourself, take responsibility for your choices, and don’t just recognize red flags—act on them.