Millennials’ perceived indifference toward Gen Z's emotions can be seen in several factors, rooted in generational differences, societal changes, and shifting cultural norms. One main reason is the difference in how both generations were raised and socialized. Millennials grew up during a phase of economic problems, with the rise of the internet and social media, and often had to develop a tough, self-reliant mindset. This made them more focused on personal resilience and dealing with new challenges independently, rather than expressing emotional expression or external validation. They were told to "tough it out" and not be vulnerable, which contrasts with Gen Z's approach to emotional awareness.
Contrasting this, Gen Z has grown up in an age of heightened social awareness, mental health discussions, and an emphasis on emotional well-being. As digital natives, they are more likely to talk openly about their feelings and seeking validation or support online, which can sometimes be seen as oversensitivity or seeking emotional support by older generations.
Additionally, Millennials may perceive Gen Z's emotional sensitivity as a result of over-protection or "snowflake" culture, shaped by well-meaning but sometimes excessive strict parenting. Millennials may view this as a contrast to their own upbringing, where being mentally strong was more emphasized.
This difference in attitudes can also be influenced by generational fatigue. Millennials, often burdened by economic challenges and social change, may absolutely not have the energy or patience to engage with the emotional concerns of a younger generation, specifically if they perceive those concerns as excessive or not grounded in reality.