Bhai Dooj: A Celebration Of Special Bond Between Brother And Sister

As Diwali celebrations come to an end, the festival of Bhai Dooj, also called Yama Dwitiya, is almost here. Falling on November 3, 2024, Bhai Dooj celebrates the special bond between brothers and sisters with old traditions and stories from mythology.

The Significance of Bhai Dooj: More Than Just a Festival

Bhai Dooj is more than just a festival; it’s a heartfelt way for siblings to express love and care. Sisters pray for their brothers’ long life and success by applying a traditional tilak, and brothers show their appreciation with gifts in return.

The festival’s origins go back to the story of Yamaraj, the god of death, and his sister, Yamuna. On this day, Yama visited Yamuna, who welcomed him warmly and received his blessings. This story highlights the protective and caring bond shared between siblings.

What's The Story Behind Bhai Dooj ?

In Hindu mythology, the story of Bhai Dooj is connected to Yamaraj, the god of death, and his sister, Yamuna. It’s said that Yamuna missed her brother deeply and invited him many times to visit her. Finally, one day, Yamaraj accepted and came to see her. Yamuna welcomed him warmly, applying a tilak on his forehead and offering him sweets. Touched by her love and respect, Yamaraj granted her a boon. She asked him to visit her on this same day each year, and so began the tradition of brothers visiting their sisters on Bhai Dooj.

Another legend says that Bhai Dooj began when Lord Krishna visited his sister, Subhadra, after defeating the demon Narakasura. Subhadra greeted Krishna with sweets, flowers, and a tilak on his forehead, marking another origin of the festival.

Rituals:

On this day, brothers and sisters rise early, take a holy bath, and wear traditional clothes. Sisters prepare delicious meals and sweets for their brothers, and they meet to celebrate—either at the sister's or brother's home, depending on whether they are married. Sisters arrange a plate with roli, unbroken rice, dried coconut, sweets, and a gift for their brothers. They apply tilak and rice to their brothers' foreheads and wish them health and a long life. In return, brothers touch their sisters' feet, offer blessings, and give a gift or token of appreciation. After performing these rituals, they share a meal together, making the day even more special.